But for now I can make an update on what’s kind of been going on in my life and what that’s been teaching me. In the past month that I have not been posting or online, I have seen my best friend get married, fought really hard and got to continue my school despite majorly lacking credits, and I’ve celebrated my parents being married 25 years.
Accepting imperfection has always been difficult to me, thinking and certainly believing that immediately I had to be perfect in things made the fall so much steeper when I failed to be. It took my motivation and crushed it because I thought I couldn’t after failing my first attempt.
I hate that things are changing now and everything will be different, but I also know to trust the process and be in it. Don’t avoid the process because you don’t want to be there, everything has something to teach you. Go through it, embrace it, and learn from it.
A few weeks ago I was broken, a simple college student who no longer had to motivation or determination for anything including life. Lying on the couch just crying because everything was a mess and there seemed to be no way out. Crippling fear going through your body because everything seems to be going wrong and all the hope you once had for your future now being gone.
The experiences of going back home to Singapore, seeing my friends, family, room and everything again, getting to travel to Bali Indonesia and meeting new people who struggled with the same things as me, talking to long distance friends. Everything has seemed to help piece back the puzzle one by one.
The hardest decision in life is deciding to walk away or try harder. I can’t give up on the growth and strength journey I’ve come so far in. I’m still here. That is enough to keep me going.
“It’s okay to struggle with that and not always be my happy self” which honestly was weird and difficult to hear. I had always grown up thinking I had to keep my best foot forward, not show if something was wrong. Yet they showed me I was allowed to be imperfect.
It’s one of those questions that you’re never going to get one straight answer for, because some things we will never understand until we are with God. However what I am hoping to accomplish with this post is not giving you an answer, but argue why things happen and why they are allowed to happen. It all comes down to trust.
You see the issue is not always that bad things happen, because that in itself is inevitable. The issue is the mindset. It’s being thankful that we have a God, that in the midst of our tragedies is still working things out and leading us in the ways we should go.
Theres airplanes flying across the pale blue sky Each followed with a white cloud trailing behind As the plane moves forward, and creates new clouds The old…… Read more “Airplane Trails”